Its surprising...

Once you become focussed people actually start moving away from you.
Was speaking to this friend of mine who I had known since my coaching days....she seemed to echo the same thoughts.
I had a really great concersation with her and discovered that my insights about a few people who happened to be our common friends had turned out to be right.
But what Im concerned about is.... should I still go ahead and be friends with these people? What if they were actually genuine to me? What if they were desperately trying to comunicate with me and I just wasnt bothered because I wanted to carefully avoid them? Are their intentions really good?

These are some questions I have been asking for sometime.
I just hope it isnt too late before I get to know reality. I hate mulling over broken friendships....that too when I discover I have been at fault somewhere!

Statistically though my instincts have always helped me steer clear of any trouble....but statistics dont help often enough when it comes to human bonding...there are freak cases too....n I dont wanna end up letting go of some friends for none of their fault.