Borrrreeeddd of handling people!
Im bored of being bored now.
Actually Im not bored... Im just upset with people's weird reactions.
Its a fact... Guys might be chronologically your age but they have the brains of a sixteen yr old right uptil the time they are twenty five ...refuse to grow up... but still wanna show that they are "men"... n think the world of themselves.
And they all want just the same thing from a girl....sick fellas.If a girl does the mistake of asking them to be frnds first or talking to them for hours like she would to her other friends they think she's all laid out for them...why dont they understand that girls are born chatterboxes and talk to just about anybody about anything under the sun...n fer the fact in the first place ...she doesnt even think they're at all that "kewwwwwl" as they claim to be neway!! They dont understand friendship at all....but still claim to be great frnds.
One moment they'd be all friendly n the next they fight with you for a reason they cant "tell" you!...how can they neway....they dont know it themselves!...weird confused idiots.
They make it look like you have a problem talking to them, when its actually they who complicate matters....impractical fools....its just so silly n weird n annoying... n the worst part...they have huge problems accepting their own mistakes. Tell them the truth today n expect them to stop talking to you for a whole week....why?...coz they "dont care"...actually they dont want to coz they bloody well know its their fault and have difficulty owning up to it...dont expect an apology for unpredictable behavior tho'...thats outta question..(male ego u see).. Gawwwd! stuck up ppl!You so badly need help!Just because we point out a mistake in you does not mean we hate you or have something against you... just like I dont have nething these guys-who-think-they-are-men ....EVEN NOW!!Its just that they have weird notions of everything...n make life difficult for themselves and for others!
Its not "men" who're sick.... its the boys who think they are "men" that are....n they are far more sentimental than girls(who they call cry babies!). Of course since crying is not a done thing for men, guys-who-think-they-are-men prefer more "manly" ways of addressing the fact that they are hurt in some way or the other... like losing their temper ...or using the choicest of expletives ....or better still....saying they dont care...when they actually do and dont want to tell you coz u "hurt" them for a reason they dont know!Ask them the reason and they avoid you... simply because they dont have the courage to own up.Try to set things right... and they withdraw for whatever reasons...which they dont know!I know one thing for sure...Im not gonna try beyond a point to set things right....Ill alwz be frnds tho' because I believe every person u meet is worth keeping as a frnd...what kin I do if they have problems with me? I hate forcing ppl to do things they dont want to....neway it was they who stopped talking to me in da first place....if they talk to me well n gud ...if they dont...well its just their choice...Im not gonna do much abt it beyond a point...because I cant!That goes for all people...I give my hundred percent to every friendship... n so I kin afford to not care if that is not reciprocated. Ppl have problems delivering fifty percent!When are they ever gonna grow up?
Poor things...they dont know they gotta grow up....and when they do its too late!
Never tell them that tho'....male ego is horrible in its nascent stages u see!!:D
posted by VKu @ 10:08 AM
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hey, cool down !! I know that u've been hurt, but i won't ask who or what unless u want to tell me urself....But u really make a gross error in ur blog, and dat is of generalisation....Its as moronic as saying that men should work while women should stay in kitchen!!! Coz u see, for every 5 such look-i'm-such-a-cool-macho-man type guy, there exists 2 who really doesnt care what the world thinks abt his machoism or its lack thereof.....in the same vein, for every 5 such i'm-a-mature-sensitive-grl-looking-for-frndship,there exists two schemeing ones who look to exploit the gullibility of guys using feminine charms getting what they want, which they themselves aren't sure of coz they r so confused in the first place!! This is not a knee-jerk rxn to ur blog....if u calm down and think abt it, u'll find that u've met and possible befriended all 4 types that i've juss mentioned somewer in life ( maybe in ur school life alone :)...) So, grl, dont let anyone call u biased and rethink wat u juss wrote....
point taken.... but still cant help saying these things....because of some bad apples , the rest of them bear the brunt...thats true of both sexes!
neway....this blog just ends up bearing the brunt too:D
I wasnt criticising ur blog.....i really love to chk it (them) once in a while, coz u won't believe how much similarity exists in our mindsets.....almost like a sense of "deja vu" and "did-someone-else-face-the-same-shit-as-well" .....Juss telling u to cool down a li'l bit, and also to tell u that u r neither the first nor the last to think along these lines....ppl no matter how moronic , brilliant or popular they r will realize this at some pt. in life....i juss wanted to tell u that der's not much sense in getting hurt....coz i do know how easily u get hurt, though u may not show it to evry1.....
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