Life does come full circle...isnt it!

N today ppl are standing at the same crossroads that I was sometime ago....wondering whether to continue being friends with the people they hate or chuck the entire idea.

You need'nt do any moral policing for anybody...things have a way evening out themselves.
What you can do is to however try and avoid stuff that you know inherently irks you. Yes I agree....sometimes you need to do stuff, meet people you dont like. I personally believe there is an alternative to everything...for when you rule out one way of doing something...automatically others emerge. N this is how I have always lived my life...It does not agree with me to continue being nice to someone I really dont like.....gives me a feeling of inauthenticity.....well that doesnt mean I keep quareling with them...I just dont cross their path or let them cross mine. N yes I definitely do consider myself a hypocrite to a far lesser degree than those significant, successful other people who wield the baton of diplomacy like it was their birthright....I dont think I would require those people....we would hardly ever meet in mutually intersecting contexts.

Yes ...I'd anyday rather be honest than successful.

I appreciate people who can be nice to me even if they hate me.....because I have already seen through their motives. I am not scared of the fact that I might require them later...because if I do Im sure I can find alternatives. It is they who are scared of the fact that they might require me later on....n so they consequently have to be nice to me. But let me tell you, if you're being nice without wanting to be nice you're hurting nobody but yourself. N if you really required my help...I would still help you on grounds of human goodness. Only dont expect that I might ever ask for ur help just so you can "settle scores". I am not that into the filthiness of pretence.
And if I had to be successful...it would have to be the right way....working with the right people...I wont think twice before ruling YOU out for any kinda help...yes YOU who dislike moi from the very bottom of your heart....YOU who dislike moi for no apparent reason....N Ive done it too...I mean I have achieved things the right way....it has made me a stronger person.

People have diferent ways of living their lives... If a certain somebody came back to me and asked me to be their friend....I would tell them pointblank...."I dont have a problem being your friend, but you can never expect that you would equally be MY friend
My friends are somebody I trust.....And I dont trust you. I can however be trusted which makes it possible for me to be YOUR friend. I will also never professionally put myself in a position where I might have to associate with somebody like you. I am sharp enough to find other ethical ways and ethical people to get my work done"

So dear ex-acquaintances/good "friends".... I wish you all the very best. We will not see each other for a very long time to come. Do not expect niceties like "Its alrite ....we kin build a better relationship from now on....." n the like from me coz Im straightforward. I cannot pretend to like you when I actually dont. But I will never harm you(although Im capable of doing so) simply because I believe in being good and doing good and the power within me is too vast and too precious to be wasted on trivial things like trying to make life difficult for an adversary.

I advise you to stay away from my life for your own good. Two people who are negative for each other must never meet. They will end up spoiling more than they can build in both their lives.

Keep your face when you interact with me, if it is just to allay your fears. Only I dont require those niceties. It is worthless because it is very easy for me to help somebody without expecting to be helped in return by the same person.

ADIOS. Hope you have the time of your life.

ADIOS.